NOTHING LEFT TO SAY BUT GOODBYE

All of us want things to be perfect….but we never get what we really want…..at least I dont ( remember the song you don’t always get what you want but you do get what you need by rolling stones...life’s kinda like that). Sometimes you care about someone so much that you are so afraid that person might get hurt by anything starting from the most trivial to the most important things. In such cases we do things in a safe mode and try to bring about the so called perfect ness. But does there exist anything in this world that is “Perfect”. I don’t know and frankly from all the experiences I have had I don’t care anymore.In my pursuit for perfect ness and to make everything alright I forgot one of the most important things that was to enjoy each and every moment of it and just let it be but I guess I thought else wise and messed up . It’s like that you don’t want to give up on something you have worked so hard on ….dedicated almost everything you had but is just doesn't amount to anything then letting it go is the best option you have( it's the only option you have).Most people facing such situations get disappointed ….they get frustrated. Most of the people I have met in my life say they never got what they actually wanted.They tried and put in their best efforts and tried more but it just didn't work out. Some were bitter about it and some moved on and some regretted their actions.Regret comes in all shapes and sizes .We regret our decisions , our thoughts and everything that didn’t go well .Some regrets are smaller like when we say something bad or do a bad thing , for a good reason .Some are bigger , like when we let down some one who counted on us more than anything .Some of us escape the jaws of regret by making the right choice( I don’t even know if something like a right choice actually exists). Some of us have little time for regret , because we want to look forwards towards the future.Sometimes we fight to come in terms with the past ( this ain’t always pretty). And sometimes we bury the regrets by promising to change. But the biggest regrets are not things we did. …but the things we didn’t do ….which we should have done but kept on thinking whether it was right or not ,only to realize it was the only right thing to do. What if it didn’t workout …your job , your relationship ….your life....what are you going to do? When such situations in life comes rushing at you out of the darkness, what will you choose to do….will you get up and fight it out or lose your way in the darkness. The important thing in life is not to get bitter over life’s disappointments. We have to learn to let go of the past and realize that everyday wont be sunny and when you find yourself lost in the darkness of despair, remember it’s only in the black of night you see stars and those stars lead you home.So now, I say let’s move on .I know it’s easier said than done but if you keep on hanging to the past which should never have happened the way it did, it will gain on you and it’s going leave you in a mess and it’s really going to be even more tougher than before. Well, a new day is dawning , the sun is rising after killing the darkness , so let’s bid the past goodbye and Roll on and let's make up for the lost time .....coz hey shit happens!!!! you just gotta learn to roll with it.